In honor of our boy growing up, here’s an encapsulated version of how that happened.
Archive for November 11th, 2007
Sam’s slide show
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Sam’s 5th Birthday!
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A birthday has been had and a boy is now five.
The event was a huge success. Sam was thrilled to bits about everything from the way his planned menu turned out … roast chicken, grilled red snapper, coconut crab curry, rice, eggplant chutney, pumpkin salad, roast potatoes … to the musical candle and sparkler in the shape of a 5, to the wonderful company, to the raft of gifts.
Mark’s family considered me cruel to the extreme for not letting Sam open any gifts until after dinner. The giddy charm of anticipation eludes them completely, so they consider placing wrapped presents in plain view to be slavered over for days in an ever-increasing frenzy of expectation and suspense little more than torture.
How many times over the course of the evening I heard, usually from my husband’s mother, some oblique reference to Sam’s fortitude and my cruelty over the apparently arbitrary wait to satisfy curiosity with some furious wrapping paper demolishing.
My mother, on the other hand, sent an email in total support of the enforcement of a period of anticipatory agony.
“It’s the best part,” she reminded.
Even Sam admitted as much under the influence of afterglow this morning, acknowledging that long longing made the revealing more fun and stretched out the excitement over a longer period than simple gift opening frenzy would allow.
Keeping in mind that many things kids in the real world take for granted and have seen time after time are completely unknown on this island, you will see in the photos that a Spiderman suit complete with built-in muscles was the cat’s pajamas … so to speak … although much too hot in a non-breathing polyester sort of way to be Sam’s pajamas no matter how dear his wish was never to remove this perfect fit of an alter ego.
(Sent from Utah by my friend Holly along with a bounty of Americana, she provided this piece de resistance … triceps de isometrics?)
A tiny china tea set from my mom was a big hit with Cj, who spent the rest of the evening pouring.
With my boy well sated, I’m figuring I now have a couple of weeks before the pre-Christmas mania begins to build.
Enjoy the photos.
Sam and Cj before the party.
Casual Spidey
Spidey pose, Spidey pose, doing the thing only a spider does
Such a happy Birthday Boy!
Happy Cj, too, with her very first tea set