Some interesting conversations are going on at the moment, and rather than attempt to summarize, interpret or spin, I’ll just give the links and let everyone decide for themselves.
http://mixednutsblog.wordpress.com/2007/12/15/privilege-choice-entitlement-and-minority-rule/
http://afamilyaffair.wordpress.com/2007/12/12/adoption-ramble/#comments
http://paragraphein.wordpress.com/2007/12/16/cant-get-through/